Hey I'm on the phone right now wuth the girl that i'm talking to. She just asked me did i go to the movies in the place where i just moved from. I told her yes and i asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomarrow because my dad and mom are going out twith my uncle and aunt. She said yes but i wanted to know if me and her should go out are is it too soon. Let me tell you somehing. The first time i saw her we didn't say 10 words to each other. But she called me and now we are chatting it up real nice i wanted to know if i'm doing this right, and if i should go out with her tomarrow.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Thanks for the advice but we had n o rid4e so we didn't go. But we are talking about the first time we meet each other and she told me that she thought we would make good friends but then she said that when we got each other's # that mabey we could get to know each other better. But i don't know how to ask her where we stand in the terms as relationship ise.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Don't rush into it. Hang out with her a few times, see if like "her", and then you might consider a relationship. Don't ask or mention anything about a relationship for a while; this will just kill the mystery/challenge. Calm down and be patient. Tell us how your first date goes and we'll help you from there.