Hey I'm on the phone right now wuth the girl that i'm talking to. She just asked me did i go to the movies in the place where i just moved from. I told her yes and i asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomarrow because my dad and mom are going out twith my uncle and aunt. She said yes but i wanted to know if me and her should go out are is it too soon. Let me tell you somehing. The first time i saw her we didn't say 10 words to each other. But she called me and now we are chatting it up real nice i wanted to know if i'm doing this right, and if i should go out with her tomarrow.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Help!!!
- Thread starter Trae
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks for the advice but we had n o rid4e so we didn't go. But we are talking about the first time we meet each other and she told me that she thought we would make good friends but then she said that when we got each other's # that mabey we could get to know each other better. But i don't know how to ask her where we stand in the terms as relationship ise.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
Don't rush into it. Hang out with her a few times, see if like "her", and then you might consider a relationship. Don't ask or mention anything about a relationship for a while; this will just kill the mystery/challenge. Calm down and be patient. Tell us how your first date goes and we'll help you from there.