"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don_Joffe

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I usto like this girl, she usto like me, we held hands once, I shouldve kissed her when i had the chance, she then thought i called her a slut because i got angry at her because she was dressing like a "*****" at a "*****/pimp" dress party. I explained to her she isnt a ***** but she got hurt by my comment, this was all 2 months ago, a few days later she kissed some guy and they been together for 2 months. Now, I still like her, we have been distant, HOW DO I GET HER?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You don't. And if by some miracle you did, you wouldn't want her. Not for long. She's a drama queen. Move on.
 

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My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
 

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1) talk to her more
2) spend more time with her
3) dont have such an attitude towards her
4) suprise her
5) make her laugh/smile

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
Are you kidding me? You're seriously going to come on here and ask "how do I attract a girl?!?! This whole website is filled with nothing but tips, articles, and essays answering that exact question. Go read.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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