"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I usto like this girl, she usto like me, we held hands once, I shouldve kissed her when i had the chance, she then thought i called her a slut because i got angry at her because she was dressing like a "*****" at a "*****/pimp" dress party. I explained to her she isnt a ***** but she got hurt by my comment, this was all 2 months ago, a few days later she kissed some guy and they been together for 2 months. Now, I still like her, we have been distant, HOW DO I GET HER?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You don't. And if by some miracle you did, you wouldn't want her. Not for long. She's a drama queen. Move on.
 

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My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
 

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1) talk to her more
2) spend more time with her
3) dont have such an attitude towards her
4) suprise her
5) make her laugh/smile

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
Are you kidding me? You're seriously going to come on here and ask "how do I attract a girl?!?! This whole website is filled with nothing but tips, articles, and essays answering that exact question. Go read.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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