"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I usto like this girl, she usto like me, we held hands once, I shouldve kissed her when i had the chance, she then thought i called her a slut because i got angry at her because she was dressing like a "*****" at a "*****/pimp" dress party. I explained to her she isnt a ***** but she got hurt by my comment, this was all 2 months ago, a few days later she kissed some guy and they been together for 2 months. Now, I still like her, we have been distant, HOW DO I GET HER?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You don't. And if by some miracle you did, you wouldn't want her. Not for long. She's a drama queen. Move on.
 

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My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
 

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1) talk to her more
2) spend more time with her
3) dont have such an attitude towards her
4) suprise her
5) make her laugh/smile

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
Are you kidding me? You're seriously going to come on here and ask "how do I attract a girl?!?! This whole website is filled with nothing but tips, articles, and essays answering that exact question. Go read.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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