"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don_Joffe

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I usto like this girl, she usto like me, we held hands once, I shouldve kissed her when i had the chance, she then thought i called her a slut because i got angry at her because she was dressing like a "*****" at a "*****/pimp" dress party. I explained to her she isnt a ***** but she got hurt by my comment, this was all 2 months ago, a few days later she kissed some guy and they been together for 2 months. Now, I still like her, we have been distant, HOW DO I GET HER?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You don't. And if by some miracle you did, you wouldn't want her. Not for long. She's a drama queen. Move on.
 

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My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
 

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1) talk to her more
2) spend more time with her
3) dont have such an attitude towards her
4) suprise her
5) make her laugh/smile

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
My question was NOT do i go for her? My question was, How do i get her? What technique do I use to get her? ATM we are quite distant speaking wise, how do improve it? etc..
Are you kidding me? You're seriously going to come on here and ask "how do I attract a girl?!?! This whole website is filled with nothing but tips, articles, and essays answering that exact question. Go read.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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