"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I’m neoteric and in urgency of help.

Which one is better and more effective line to use – Can you be my girlfriend or Will you be my girlfriend? And what are the things I should say before saying this thing to her? What should I do and when should I say it? Should I ask for permission on courting her or go straight to the point asking her to be my girlfriend?

Thanks a lot for your suggestions.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay, I got that. But still, I can't find the right answer. If you could, please, just tell me what to do with my situation. I'm really new and inexperienced so I don't have any f***in idea what to do.
 
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Originally posted by Asesino
I’m neoteric and in urgency of help.

Which one is better and more effective line to use – Can you be my girlfriend or Will you be my girlfriend? And what are the things I should say before saying this thing to her? What should I do and when should I say it? Should I ask for permission on courting her or go straight to the point asking her to be my girlfriend?

Thanks a lot for your suggestions.
Either of the two will do. The things you should say before this? Not much, really, just make sure that she likes you and that you like her.

Whatever you do, do not worry about what is to come. Life will bring you whatever it will, you're just here to learn.
 

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Originally posted by Asesino
Okay, I got that. But still, I can't find the right answer. If you could, please, just tell me what to do with my situation. I'm really new and inexperienced so I don't have any f***in idea what to do.
For one thing re-read it.


For another just say. "Hey, you should be my girlfriend"


Simple as that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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