"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I’m neoteric and in urgency of help.

Which one is better and more effective line to use – Can you be my girlfriend or Will you be my girlfriend? And what are the things I should say before saying this thing to her? What should I do and when should I say it? Should I ask for permission on courting her or go straight to the point asking her to be my girlfriend?

Thanks a lot for your suggestions.


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay, I got that. But still, I can't find the right answer. If you could, please, just tell me what to do with my situation. I'm really new and inexperienced so I don't have any f***in idea what to do.
 
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Originally posted by Asesino
I’m neoteric and in urgency of help.

Which one is better and more effective line to use – Can you be my girlfriend or Will you be my girlfriend? And what are the things I should say before saying this thing to her? What should I do and when should I say it? Should I ask for permission on courting her or go straight to the point asking her to be my girlfriend?

Thanks a lot for your suggestions.
Either of the two will do. The things you should say before this? Not much, really, just make sure that she likes you and that you like her.

Whatever you do, do not worry about what is to come. Life will bring you whatever it will, you're just here to learn.
 

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Originally posted by Asesino
Okay, I got that. But still, I can't find the right answer. If you could, please, just tell me what to do with my situation. I'm really new and inexperienced so I don't have any f***in idea what to do.
For one thing re-read it.


For another just say. "Hey, you should be my girlfriend"


Simple as that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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