Why do girls turn really cold on me sometimes? I've been out with a few girls several times and after a few dates they turn very cold on me. Why do they turn this way and what should I do? This is really killing me. Please help me out.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Thread starter Adrian
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
its happens to me to, your not their "type" as in your not good looking enough, girls say looks arent everyting. That means if your good looking and a dumbass, you'll only get far if shes a slut. If your ugly and smart, you'll get aways until shes sick of you paying for **** on dates and stops calling.
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you're way too vague. Give us some more insight into the dates and what happened etc. how were they cold.... was it when you asked certain questions? or what. explain it in detail bro
you're way too vague. Give us some more insight into the dates and what happened etc. how were they cold.... was it when you asked certain questions? or what. explain it in detail bro
I don't think I can get anymore specific than I am right now because I feel really f***ed up at the moment but anyways....... They seem very open and warm at one point then the next day you see another side of them. They begin to ignore and treat you different in a not so nice manner.
could be you come on too strong or become annoying somehow. I guess if you took a closer look at what exactly happens with each girl you might recognize a pattern of how you might be doing something she would eventually find annoying, like calling too much or being too pushy, and then you could change from there.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.