Why do girls turn really cold on me sometimes? I've been out with a few girls several times and after a few dates they turn very cold on me. Why do they turn this way and what should I do? This is really killing me. Please help me out.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
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its happens to me to, your not their "type" as in your not good looking enough, girls say looks arent everyting. That means if your good looking and a dumbass, you'll only get far if shes a slut. If your ugly and smart, you'll get aways until shes sick of you paying for **** on dates and stops calling.
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you're way too vague. Give us some more insight into the dates and what happened etc. how were they cold.... was it when you asked certain questions? or what. explain it in detail bro
you're way too vague. Give us some more insight into the dates and what happened etc. how were they cold.... was it when you asked certain questions? or what. explain it in detail bro
I don't think I can get anymore specific than I am right now because I feel really f***ed up at the moment but anyways....... They seem very open and warm at one point then the next day you see another side of them. They begin to ignore and treat you different in a not so nice manner.
could be you come on too strong or become annoying somehow. I guess if you took a closer look at what exactly happens with each girl you might recognize a pattern of how you might be doing something she would eventually find annoying, like calling too much or being too pushy, and then you could change from there.
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