"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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siaosiaoboii

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Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like horsesh!t to me.
How do birds know how to build nests?
How do fvcking honey badgers know how to kill snakes?
How does every male mammal in the world know where to stick his d!ck when he smells a female in heat?

If she was really interested in you, she'd know. This is just a delaying tactic.

I went to an all boys' boarding school for five years but I still knew when I wanted to fvck a girl.
 

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siaosiaoboii said:
Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
So what you're saying is, you professed your love for a girl that you never even went on a date with. And now things are weird between you two.

You're young, so I don't blame you. But you made a young mistake. You don't TALK ABOUT your feelings for a woman. You DO SOMETHING about it...as in, kiss her.

Anyway, this girl probably isn't interested. When a girl likes you, there's no "confusion".
 
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