"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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siaosiaoboii

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Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like horsesh!t to me.
How do birds know how to build nests?
How do fvcking honey badgers know how to kill snakes?
How does every male mammal in the world know where to stick his d!ck when he smells a female in heat?

If she was really interested in you, she'd know. This is just a delaying tactic.

I went to an all boys' boarding school for five years but I still knew when I wanted to fvck a girl.
 

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siaosiaoboii said:
Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
So what you're saying is, you professed your love for a girl that you never even went on a date with. And now things are weird between you two.

You're young, so I don't blame you. But you made a young mistake. You don't TALK ABOUT your feelings for a woman. You DO SOMETHING about it...as in, kiss her.

Anyway, this girl probably isn't interested. When a girl likes you, there's no "confusion".
 
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