"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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siaosiaoboii

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Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like horsesh!t to me.
How do birds know how to build nests?
How do fvcking honey badgers know how to kill snakes?
How does every male mammal in the world know where to stick his d!ck when he smells a female in heat?

If she was really interested in you, she'd know. This is just a delaying tactic.

I went to an all boys' boarding school for five years but I still knew when I wanted to fvck a girl.
 

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siaosiaoboii said:
Hey dudes, i'm new here and i need a little help... and i'm going to get to it straight.

There's this cute girl i've met at my Co-Curriculum activity she's a year one, 17 and i'm 19 average looking.

Now here's the problem, she said she's awkward with me only(and other guys dont feel awkward to her) coz i didnt treat her like a normal friend which is obvious... and she said she is didnt know of the feeling of like or love, coz she has been in girl school for the past 10 years...

Recently her text has been cold towards me, and we didnt really text much anymore... Just a few calls these few days, sort of confessed and she didnt really accept or reject the idea... She just said the 'problem'
So what you're saying is, you professed your love for a girl that you never even went on a date with. And now things are weird between you two.

You're young, so I don't blame you. But you made a young mistake. You don't TALK ABOUT your feelings for a woman. You DO SOMETHING about it...as in, kiss her.

Anyway, this girl probably isn't interested. When a girl likes you, there's no "confusion".
 
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