I am in a summer school called Exeter. Here I have lost a lot of my shyness with girls but I still do not feel confident enough. Sometimes my mind goes blank and I do not know what to say. I want to make out with a girl for first time here. If anyone could give some links or tips on conversation kino, etc. I would appreciate it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Be funnyfonsi141 said:
Be sexual
Be blunt
Be fun
Be confident
When I approach I'm very quick in how I operate. I give a time constraint, let her know I'm sexually interested, find out her name, and ask for her number. Use that to set up a date, preferably at your place, then proceed to escalate as far as you can.
Not overly difficult.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Experience is the best teacher. Go out and try new things until you find what works.fonsi141 said:
Being good with girls happens over time and nothing beat experience! But just to speed up the process....
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
^^^alxrose is right, humans learn from observation, but rather than watching fictional content, learn from real life. Look to guys in your life that are well respected by those around them, and see how they are open, direct and sincere.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
You don't know how to be funny or sexual? Dude we aren't here to live your life for you. I'm appalled. Make an effort, if you fail so be it.fonsi141 said: