I am in a summer school called Exeter. Here I have lost a lot of my shyness with girls but I still do not feel confident enough. Sometimes my mind goes blank and I do not know what to say. I want to make out with a girl for first time here. If anyone could give some links or tips on conversation kino, etc. I would appreciate it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Be funnyfonsi141 said:
Be sexual
Be blunt
Be fun
Be confident
When I approach I'm very quick in how I operate. I give a time constraint, let her know I'm sexually interested, find out her name, and ask for her number. Use that to set up a date, preferably at your place, then proceed to escalate as far as you can.
Not overly difficult.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Experience is the best teacher. Go out and try new things until you find what works.fonsi141 said:
Being good with girls happens over time and nothing beat experience! But just to speed up the process....
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
^^^alxrose is right, humans learn from observation, but rather than watching fictional content, learn from real life. Look to guys in your life that are well respected by those around them, and see how they are open, direct and sincere.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
You don't know how to be funny or sexual? Dude we aren't here to live your life for you. I'm appalled. Make an effort, if you fail so be it.fonsi141 said: