I am in a summer school called Exeter. Here I have lost a lot of my shyness with girls but I still do not feel confident enough. Sometimes my mind goes blank and I do not know what to say. I want to make out with a girl for first time here. If anyone could give some links or tips on conversation kino, etc. I would appreciate it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Be funnyfonsi141 said:
Be sexual
Be blunt
Be fun
Be confident
When I approach I'm very quick in how I operate. I give a time constraint, let her know I'm sexually interested, find out her name, and ask for her number. Use that to set up a date, preferably at your place, then proceed to escalate as far as you can.
Not overly difficult.
BPH
Master Don Juan
Experience is the best teacher. Go out and try new things until you find what works.fonsi141 said:
Being good with girls happens over time and nothing beat experience! But just to speed up the process....
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
To be funny - watch stand up comedy shows. Preferably a comedian who's similar to your sense of humor
To be sexual/confident - watch james bond movies or ocean 11 movies. Pay attention to the leading men. Watch their eye contact and how focused it is and what how bold they are and how they stand by what they say. Be proud and say what's on your mind.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
^^^alxrose is right, humans learn from observation, but rather than watching fictional content, learn from real life. Look to guys in your life that are well respected by those around them, and see how they are open, direct and sincere.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
Do not model your behavior on fictional characters or even videos of pick-up artists (those videos are often edited to the artist's benefit). If you want things to watch on youtube, I like KassemG's uncut interviews, they show rapport building and sexual teasing. Sashapua also has some good pick up videos, you can tell because he doesnt edit out his rejections.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
You don't know how to be funny or sexual? Dude we aren't here to live your life for you. I'm appalled. Make an effort, if you fail so be it.fonsi141 said: