"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tazcr77

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Hey ya'll! I will go straight to the point. I need some advice from you guys on the folllowing situation.
I dated this girl about 2 years ago. We were a having a good relationship as sex friends. I didnt want to go into any engagement back then neither do now. Anyway. fact is that one day this girl showed up announcing her new BF. This week we met for lunch on Monday and Tuesday. She's been going thru some issues lately, work related- she got fired. Now my question is should I listen to all her grim realities in order to resteblish our previous relationship as sex friends? Would that help? Or would listening to her problems turn me into the nice guy that she does not wants get laid with? Thanks in advance guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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Didn't you just say she has a boyfriend? Have you approached any new women this week? How many women are you seeing right now? Do you see where I'm going with this? Are you that hard up?
 

Kevin Feng

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The best solution honestly, is to go out and simply meet new women, not to sound like a broken record as I'm sure you've already heard this a dozen times from other people.

Instead of micromanaging the hell out of this situation, work on macromanaging your life. If you meet a ton of new women and have plenty of women in your life, you will not need to worry about this one chick.

Anyways, if you REALLY want to get this girl back, then yes, spend more time with her, if you really want to fix the root of this problem, you need to start going out more often and meeting new people.

-Kevin
 

COD

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what do U want............if U desire to bang this chic a few more times..........listen to her problems then say "YOU NEED SOME STRESS RELIEVING OR A ESCAPE FROM YOUR PROBLEMS FOR A MOMENT"...........then take her by the hand........and then bang her brains out.

These guys forget the reality of boyfriends..........the moment things go awry with her BF......where do U thnk she will run to first. If she is banging you despite she has a BF.........keep that in rotation in addition to your other women.

just dont give her an ultimatum or ask any comparison questions, you should project that yu are the man and her having a BF does not bother you in the slightest, you could careless. You banging her should be your secret.

Dude I gotta hand it to you..........banging a chic with a BF.........well done.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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