"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey ya'll! I will go straight to the point. I need some advice from you guys on the folllowing situation.
I dated this girl about 2 years ago. We were a having a good relationship as sex friends. I didnt want to go into any engagement back then neither do now. Anyway. fact is that one day this girl showed up announcing her new BF. This week we met for lunch on Monday and Tuesday. She's been going thru some issues lately, work related- she got fired. Now my question is should I listen to all her grim realities in order to resteblish our previous relationship as sex friends? Would that help? Or would listening to her problems turn me into the nice guy that she does not wants get laid with? Thanks in advance guys!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Didn't you just say she has a boyfriend? Have you approached any new women this week? How many women are you seeing right now? Do you see where I'm going with this? Are you that hard up?
 
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The best solution honestly, is to go out and simply meet new women, not to sound like a broken record as I'm sure you've already heard this a dozen times from other people.

Instead of micromanaging the hell out of this situation, work on macromanaging your life. If you meet a ton of new women and have plenty of women in your life, you will not need to worry about this one chick.

Anyways, if you REALLY want to get this girl back, then yes, spend more time with her, if you really want to fix the root of this problem, you need to start going out more often and meeting new people.

-Kevin
 
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what do U want............if U desire to bang this chic a few more times..........listen to her problems then say "YOU NEED SOME STRESS RELIEVING OR A ESCAPE FROM YOUR PROBLEMS FOR A MOMENT"...........then take her by the hand........and then bang her brains out.

These guys forget the reality of boyfriends..........the moment things go awry with her BF......where do U thnk she will run to first. If she is banging you despite she has a BF.........keep that in rotation in addition to your other women.

just dont give her an ultimatum or ask any comparison questions, you should project that yu are the man and her having a BF does not bother you in the slightest, you could careless. You banging her should be your secret.

Dude I gotta hand it to you..........banging a chic with a BF.........well done.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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