"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey ya'll! I will go straight to the point. I need some advice from you guys on the folllowing situation.
I dated this girl about 2 years ago. We were a having a good relationship as sex friends. I didnt want to go into any engagement back then neither do now. Anyway. fact is that one day this girl showed up announcing her new BF. This week we met for lunch on Monday and Tuesday. She's been going thru some issues lately, work related- she got fired. Now my question is should I listen to all her grim realities in order to resteblish our previous relationship as sex friends? Would that help? Or would listening to her problems turn me into the nice guy that she does not wants get laid with? Thanks in advance guys!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Didn't you just say she has a boyfriend? Have you approached any new women this week? How many women are you seeing right now? Do you see where I'm going with this? Are you that hard up?
 
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The best solution honestly, is to go out and simply meet new women, not to sound like a broken record as I'm sure you've already heard this a dozen times from other people.

Instead of micromanaging the hell out of this situation, work on macromanaging your life. If you meet a ton of new women and have plenty of women in your life, you will not need to worry about this one chick.

Anyways, if you REALLY want to get this girl back, then yes, spend more time with her, if you really want to fix the root of this problem, you need to start going out more often and meeting new people.

-Kevin
 
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what do U want............if U desire to bang this chic a few more times..........listen to her problems then say "YOU NEED SOME STRESS RELIEVING OR A ESCAPE FROM YOUR PROBLEMS FOR A MOMENT"...........then take her by the hand........and then bang her brains out.

These guys forget the reality of boyfriends..........the moment things go awry with her BF......where do U thnk she will run to first. If she is banging you despite she has a BF.........keep that in rotation in addition to your other women.

just dont give her an ultimatum or ask any comparison questions, you should project that yu are the man and her having a BF does not bother you in the slightest, you could careless. You banging her should be your secret.

Dude I gotta hand it to you..........banging a chic with a BF.........well done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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