"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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msonyx1991 said:
ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
NEVER tell a girl you are interested in her! It kills the mystery and turns her off. SHOW a girl you are interested in her, through flirting, kino or asking her out. Girls respond to the feelings and emotions you give them, not words.

If you want to ask her out to the prom, then just casually ask her out to it, like it's no big deal.
 
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