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ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
 

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msonyx1991 said:
ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
NEVER tell a girl you are interested in her! It kills the mystery and turns her off. SHOW a girl you are interested in her, through flirting, kino or asking her out. Girls respond to the feelings and emotions you give them, not words.

If you want to ask her out to the prom, then just casually ask her out to it, like it's no big deal.
 
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