"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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msonyx1991 said:
ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
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NEVER tell a girl you are interested in her! It kills the mystery and turns her off. SHOW a girl you are interested in her, through flirting, kino or asking her out. Girls respond to the feelings and emotions you give them, not words.

If you want to ask her out to the prom, then just casually ask her out to it, like it's no big deal.
 
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