"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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msonyx1991 said:
ok, it's getting around prom time. there's been a girl ive been hanging out with casually for over 2 months, but mostly with other people. im pretty much best friends with her best friends' boyfriend, and have spent a lot of time with them recently. she always is excited to talk to me and we have good fun conversation. i wanna tell her that im interested in her. hopefully, i can take her to prom too. what would be the best way to go about this?
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NEVER tell a girl you are interested in her! It kills the mystery and turns her off. SHOW a girl you are interested in her, through flirting, kino or asking her out. Girls respond to the feelings and emotions you give them, not words.

If you want to ask her out to the prom, then just casually ask her out to it, like it's no big deal.
 
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