"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jakes21

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Okay its been a helluva while since ive been here.well got a new chick, bought a house(She was sorta pressing me) but i wanted to buy a house anyway so...,she moved in with me.mmm the 3rd morning she started crying, becoz she misses her mother.im like wtf?she says she got to get used to not living with her parents.is this normal?she never slept over ever and shes 21.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ice882

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also, her spelling is atrocious. How can I overcome this?
 

Tiguere

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Yea I agree.... This thread doesn't deserve any advice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SandHawk

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The answer is simple: You tell her to get the f*ck out of your house after making you a sandwich(We all know, kick a chick out of your house is so much easier on a full stomach), take her key(s) away and then delete her numbers and move on until you find another girl.

Problem solved.
 

Young Juan

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Really? C'Mon Son! Getdafucouttaherewitdatbull****

Tell us what lessons you've learned first. Once we can see you've learned from this maybe we'll give you advice. Otherwise, the advice will be wasted
 
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