Okay its been a helluva while since ive been here.well got a new chick, bought a house(She was sorta pressing me) but i wanted to buy a house anyway so...,she moved in with me.mmm the 3rd morning she started crying, becoz she misses her mother.im like wtf?she says she got to get used to not living with her parents.is this normal?she never slept over ever and shes 21.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help with weird situation
- Thread starter Jakes21
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
The answer is simple: You tell her to get the f*ck out of your house after making you a sandwich(We all know, kick a chick out of your house is so much easier on a full stomach), take her key(s) away and then delete her numbers and move on until you find another girl.
Problem solved.
Problem solved.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Really? C'Mon Son! Getdafucouttaherewitdatbull****
Tell us what lessons you've learned first. Once we can see you've learned from this maybe we'll give you advice. Otherwise, the advice will be wasted
Tell us what lessons you've learned first. Once we can see you've learned from this maybe we'll give you advice. Otherwise, the advice will be wasted