Okay its been a helluva while since ive been here.well got a new chick, bought a house(She was sorta pressing me) but i wanted to buy a house anyway so...,she moved in with me.mmm the 3rd morning she started crying, becoz she misses her mother.im like wtf?she says she got to get used to not living with her parents.is this normal?she never slept over ever and shes 21.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Help with weird situation
- Thread starter Jakes21
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
The answer is simple: You tell her to get the f*ck out of your house after making you a sandwich(We all know, kick a chick out of your house is so much easier on a full stomach), take her key(s) away and then delete her numbers and move on until you find another girl.
Problem solved.
Problem solved.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Really? C'Mon Son! Getdafucouttaherewitdatbull****
Tell us what lessons you've learned first. Once we can see you've learned from this maybe we'll give you advice. Otherwise, the advice will be wasted
Tell us what lessons you've learned first. Once we can see you've learned from this maybe we'll give you advice. Otherwise, the advice will be wasted