"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help with Psychology coursework

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thank you for your list.
Your welcome. Re-reading my list, it's something a minister can use in a Sunday service for how to treat your husband. There's a counter point for women.

Some relationships are up elevators and others are down.
 

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I screenshotted(camera) the list but I would like to go back to S taples and get some nice paper and write it out. Get them to laminate it. I used to hang these encouraging lists. Not sure why I got out of doing that. I personally like staring at the words to chew on slowly.
Good idea for a minister to share, you're right. For any community leader to share.

Metalwater hit 2 of the caring things to do for women in the bored marriage thread by another member.
 
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