"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thank you for your list.
Your welcome. Re-reading my list, it's something a minister can use in a Sunday service for how to treat your husband. There's a counter point for women.

Some relationships are up elevators and others are down.
 

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I screenshotted(camera) the list but I would like to go back to S taples and get some nice paper and write it out. Get them to laminate it. I used to hang these encouraging lists. Not sure why I got out of doing that. I personally like staring at the words to chew on slowly.
Good idea for a minister to share, you're right. For any community leader to share.

Metalwater hit 2 of the caring things to do for women in the bored marriage thread by another member.
 
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