"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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help with opinion openers

ALPHAROMEO

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it s all very well to walk up to a hot babe and say " who cheat more men or women?i find the process too abrupt too direct
in a cafe , I need a softer opener first like " do you KNOW IF THEY DO FOOD HERE?

BY THE WAY IS THAT TRUE THAT MEN ARE BETTER COOKS THAN WOMEN , when they truly get down to it? is the cook here a man? I HOPE SO


I WONDER what you guys make of the above
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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dude. Stop trolling. You KNOW this sh1t is lame. Don't you have anything better to do? Every second you spend trolling you are wasting your life. Help someone, or shut up.
 

cola

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Opinion openers are lame. These days I've gotten so direct that my approaches are :

-Walking straight to her, looking her straight in her eyes and saying:​

I want to know who you are.

Straight to the point, no BS.
 
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