"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help with "Oneitis" Situation

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I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now. Things progressed quickly, and then have not stalled but leveled out as of late. When I'm with her, we have an amazing time together (including sex), but when we are apart, I feel there is a distant feeling in the relationship. The next logical step is to exclusively date, but because of timing issues, etc. we have decided to still date other people. My question is this: How do I keep her interested enough while we are apart and how much do I invest in this situation? I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket, so I will make an effort to date others, but at the same time I don't want this to just fizzle out - make sense? I'm concerned that at this point of the relationship, if I back off in any way, it will appear as though I'm losing interest and she will lose what interest she currently has. Any thoughts on this fellas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you appearing to lose interest will increase her interest...but you can only push someone away for so long and then they stop caring
 
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Im a chump that can only take one broad seriously at a time...The highs are really high, but the lows are really low

You have to have a real emotional detachment to be a good plate spinner. When you are you have less remorse for your actions. Realistically, the broads that you're dealing with might be as heartless as you should be. But they always show their true colors early on in the relationship (platonic or not) by showing that they can be inconsiderate or selfish
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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