"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help with "Oneitis" Situation

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I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now. Things progressed quickly, and then have not stalled but leveled out as of late. When I'm with her, we have an amazing time together (including sex), but when we are apart, I feel there is a distant feeling in the relationship. The next logical step is to exclusively date, but because of timing issues, etc. we have decided to still date other people. My question is this: How do I keep her interested enough while we are apart and how much do I invest in this situation? I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket, so I will make an effort to date others, but at the same time I don't want this to just fizzle out - make sense? I'm concerned that at this point of the relationship, if I back off in any way, it will appear as though I'm losing interest and she will lose what interest she currently has. Any thoughts on this fellas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you appearing to lose interest will increase her interest...but you can only push someone away for so long and then they stop caring
 
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Im a chump that can only take one broad seriously at a time...The highs are really high, but the lows are really low

You have to have a real emotional detachment to be a good plate spinner. When you are you have less remorse for your actions. Realistically, the broads that you're dealing with might be as heartless as you should be. But they always show their true colors early on in the relationship (platonic or not) by showing that they can be inconsiderate or selfish
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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