"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help with "Oneitis" Situation

charlie647

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I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now. Things progressed quickly, and then have not stalled but leveled out as of late. When I'm with her, we have an amazing time together (including sex), but when we are apart, I feel there is a distant feeling in the relationship. The next logical step is to exclusively date, but because of timing issues, etc. we have decided to still date other people. My question is this: How do I keep her interested enough while we are apart and how much do I invest in this situation? I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket, so I will make an effort to date others, but at the same time I don't want this to just fizzle out - make sense? I'm concerned that at this point of the relationship, if I back off in any way, it will appear as though I'm losing interest and she will lose what interest she currently has. Any thoughts on this fellas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you appearing to lose interest will increase her interest...but you can only push someone away for so long and then they stop caring
 

MyTeamSupreme

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Im a chump that can only take one broad seriously at a time...The highs are really high, but the lows are really low

You have to have a real emotional detachment to be a good plate spinner. When you are you have less remorse for your actions. Realistically, the broads that you're dealing with might be as heartless as you should be. But they always show their true colors early on in the relationship (platonic or not) by showing that they can be inconsiderate or selfish
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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