"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help with my voice

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bales

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Sup guys, first off let me say what a great find this website is. this being my first post, a quick sentance or two about myself: i'm 25 & a better than average looking guy, who has always noticed the attraction from women, but had no idea how to handle it. my upbringing wasn't very conducive to developing this aspect of myself, so i've essentially went through life as a AFC. i've learned the hard way looks don't mean **** if you don't know how talk to women. then i found david deangelo, who has totally revamped my outlook on women and the dating world. anyway, on to my question.

i checked the bible, and didn't see any real advice on this. being a native new yorker, i talk very fast. i also tend to talk at a higher octave. i think quick, and am relatively quick witted. i have learned to use this quick speaking style to my advantage to a certain extent - anyone who has seen a bangbus episode knows this style (even though it is fake, it works). but i need help in learning how to slow down my speach and how to properly use my tonality and inflexion to my advantage. you guys are the experts - whats the best way of doing this?

sorry if this has been discussed or if its in the DJB. if it was, please point me in the right direction.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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