"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help with my voice

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Sup guys, first off let me say what a great find this website is. this being my first post, a quick sentance or two about myself: i'm 25 & a better than average looking guy, who has always noticed the attraction from women, but had no idea how to handle it. my upbringing wasn't very conducive to developing this aspect of myself, so i've essentially went through life as a AFC. i've learned the hard way looks don't mean **** if you don't know how talk to women. then i found david deangelo, who has totally revamped my outlook on women and the dating world. anyway, on to my question.

i checked the bible, and didn't see any real advice on this. being a native new yorker, i talk very fast. i also tend to talk at a higher octave. i think quick, and am relatively quick witted. i have learned to use this quick speaking style to my advantage to a certain extent - anyone who has seen a bangbus episode knows this style (even though it is fake, it works). but i need help in learning how to slow down my speach and how to properly use my tonality and inflexion to my advantage. you guys are the experts - whats the best way of doing this?

sorry if this has been discussed or if its in the DJB. if it was, please point me in the right direction.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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