Girl lives 30 minutes from me, basically the opposite side of town. Already have a place in mind, which is in the middle (about 15 minutes) of both of us. Logistically, how would you set this up? Meet at said place? Drive separately? Me pick her up? Need suggestions. We've already slept together if that matters. Thanks in advance.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ShortSpark
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Personally, i would offer to pick her up, if your small talk is good whilst you're in the car together that is? That way it saves her the hassle of searching around for the place, and also if she gets there first, she will be waiting for you, and if you get there first, you have that awkward moment of her fumbling around the place trying to find you?
Thought about it. Smells a bit desperate though. I'd basically be going out of my way, then backtracking 15 minutes to go to the venue.
If you already slept with her then have her come to your place.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, asking a woman you've already fvcked to drive 30 minutes to see you is not a big deal.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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If you've already banged dude then ;
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
