Girl lives 30 minutes from me, basically the opposite side of town. Already have a place in mind, which is in the middle (about 15 minutes) of both of us. Logistically, how would you set this up? Meet at said place? Drive separately? Me pick her up? Need suggestions. We've already slept together if that matters. Thanks in advance.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ShortSpark
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Personally, i would offer to pick her up, if your small talk is good whilst you're in the car together that is? That way it saves her the hassle of searching around for the place, and also if she gets there first, she will be waiting for you, and if you get there first, you have that awkward moment of her fumbling around the place trying to find you?
Thought about it. Smells a bit desperate though. I'd basically be going out of my way, then backtracking 15 minutes to go to the venue.
If you already slept with her then have her come to your place.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, asking a woman you've already fvcked to drive 30 minutes to see you is not a big deal.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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If you've already banged dude then ;
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
