Girl lives 30 minutes from me, basically the opposite side of town. Already have a place in mind, which is in the middle (about 15 minutes) of both of us. Logistically, how would you set this up? Meet at said place? Drive separately? Me pick her up? Need suggestions. We've already slept together if that matters. Thanks in advance.
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Personally, i would offer to pick her up, if your small talk is good whilst you're in the car together that is? That way it saves her the hassle of searching around for the place, and also if she gets there first, she will be waiting for you, and if you get there first, you have that awkward moment of her fumbling around the place trying to find you?
Thought about it. Smells a bit desperate though. I'd basically be going out of my way, then backtracking 15 minutes to go to the venue.
If you already slept with her then have her come to your place.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
Since I spin plates.. I always have women I've already f*cked come to my place or meet me somewhere close to where I live. When you put women to work, they tend to keep higher interest anyway. I only visit women's places on weekends when its more convenient for me, unless they live close by.
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Yeah, asking a woman you've already fvcked to drive 30 minutes to see you is not a big deal.
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If you've already banged dude then ;
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
I would pick her up ,do dinner at yours or in your area and back to yours.... Take her home next day .... This setsup the weekend nicely, esp as you've had two bites at the proverbial cherry......
