My girlfriend take her time to reply or gives me short responses, most of the time i keep myself cool about it, but there are day where that **** just gets to me and i wanna tell her F*&^ Y*#, should i just keep it cool all the time?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Spend less time texting her, maybe you text too much?
Also it doesnt matter how long it takes for her to respond.. what really matters is if she is giving you action, wants to meet up etc. Its easy to 'read into' texts a bit too much. If shes not flaking or deflecting your advances then its probably not something to worry about. More info needed.
Also it doesnt matter how long it takes for her to respond.. what really matters is if she is giving you action, wants to meet up etc. Its easy to 'read into' texts a bit too much. If shes not flaking or deflecting your advances then its probably not something to worry about. More info needed.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your not alone OP. This type of thing has been driving men mad since the beginning of time. Most men combat it by texting less. Make it look like it's not bothering you and remain confident. Like one of the poster said, it's hard to read into text. A million things can be going on. That being said, you can potentially bring it up when you see each other. Say something in a joking way related to the long ass wait time in replies. That's what I would do. I'm pretty big on texting so when this type of thing happens, I just go and keep busy and text less often.
I don't know any details on how long this has been going on for but just keep it cool! Good luck my man.
I don't know any details on how long this has been going on for but just keep it cool! Good luck my man.