My girlfriend take her time to reply or gives me short responses, most of the time i keep myself cool about it, but there are day where that **** just gets to me and i wanna tell her F*&^ Y*#, should i just keep it cool all the time?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help with how i talk
- Thread starter Saiyan203
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Spend less time texting her, maybe you text too much?
Also it doesnt matter how long it takes for her to respond.. what really matters is if she is giving you action, wants to meet up etc. Its easy to 'read into' texts a bit too much. If shes not flaking or deflecting your advances then its probably not something to worry about. More info needed.
Also it doesnt matter how long it takes for her to respond.. what really matters is if she is giving you action, wants to meet up etc. Its easy to 'read into' texts a bit too much. If shes not flaking or deflecting your advances then its probably not something to worry about. More info needed.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your not alone OP. This type of thing has been driving men mad since the beginning of time. Most men combat it by texting less. Make it look like it's not bothering you and remain confident. Like one of the poster said, it's hard to read into text. A million things can be going on. That being said, you can potentially bring it up when you see each other. Say something in a joking way related to the long ass wait time in replies. That's what I would do. I'm pretty big on texting so when this type of thing happens, I just go and keep busy and text less often.
I don't know any details on how long this has been going on for but just keep it cool! Good luck my man.
I don't know any details on how long this has been going on for but just keep it cool! Good luck my man.