Help with how i talk

[Saiyan203]

My girlfriend take her time to reply or gives me short responses, most of the time i keep myself cool about it, but there are day where that **** just gets to me and i wanna tell her F*&^ Y*#, should i just keep it cool all the time?

 

[Jack89]

That's not a good sign, unless she's at work or busy. It shows lack of interest.

 

[Saiyan203]

Well she did say she was doing something, so I'm probably just tripping. Thanks Jack.

 

[DragonBlood]

Spend less time texting her, maybe you text too much?

Also it doesnt matter how long it takes for her to respond.. what really matters is if she is giving you action, wants to meet up etc. Its easy to 'read into' texts a bit too much. If shes not flaking or deflecting your advances then its probably not something to worry about. More info needed.

 

[Saiyan203]

Yeah, she gives plenty, I'm just bugging out. The long reply crap just gets to me sometimes. Thanks Dragon.

 

[Nickface]

Your not alone OP. This type of thing has been driving men mad since the beginning of time. Most men combat it by texting less. Make it look like it's not bothering you and remain confident. Like one of the poster said, it's hard to read into text. A million things can be going on. That being said, you can potentially bring it up when you see each other. Say something in a joking way related to the long ass wait time in replies. That's what I would do. I'm pretty big on texting so when this type of thing happens, I just go and keep busy and text less often.

I don't know any details on how long this has been going on for but just keep it cool! Good luck my man.