"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help with girl at work

bluemanson

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I need some help here. i got this girl at work, she is a 8.5 and i chat and flirt an stuff. i make fun of her. well basically im charming her but anyway i havent done any wussy stuff.

so i asked her on email if she likes chocolate and she replied yes.
then i told her i have body chocolate and that she she come help me try it out together.
she replied LOL..... why dont i try it with my other friend. so i said i dont think it will work but me and her well. you can put the chocolate on me and then you can lick it off and vice versa.

the next thing i get a report saying that the mail was not read and deleted.

I then relpied that YOu are no fun..

What do you guys think i did wrong or what happened. how can i get her interested in me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pingpongz

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You freak :|

You're not going out with this girl or have any kind of physical relationship with her... what would possibly make you think that saying she can lick chocalate off of you would be a good idea?
 

bluemanson

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oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
 

sherineo

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hehe..yeah I did something similar once at my workplace on AIM...she complained to her manager....lol

Lickin Chocolate...I'd call it BOLD...and not ****y at all...

In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!
 

pingpongz

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bluemanson said:
oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
lol well at least you will have a funny story to tell your mates at the pub..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bluemanson

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im at work now and when ever i see her i burst out laughing.

But i agree with SHERINEO "In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!"
 
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