"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help with girl at work

bluemanson

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I need some help here. i got this girl at work, she is a 8.5 and i chat and flirt an stuff. i make fun of her. well basically im charming her but anyway i havent done any wussy stuff.

so i asked her on email if she likes chocolate and she replied yes.
then i told her i have body chocolate and that she she come help me try it out together.
she replied LOL..... why dont i try it with my other friend. so i said i dont think it will work but me and her well. you can put the chocolate on me and then you can lick it off and vice versa.

the next thing i get a report saying that the mail was not read and deleted.

I then relpied that YOu are no fun..

What do you guys think i did wrong or what happened. how can i get her interested in me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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pingpongz

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You freak :|

You're not going out with this girl or have any kind of physical relationship with her... what would possibly make you think that saying she can lick chocalate off of you would be a good idea?
 

bluemanson

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oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
 

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hehe..yeah I did something similar once at my workplace on AIM...she complained to her manager....lol

Lickin Chocolate...I'd call it BOLD...and not ****y at all...

In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!
 

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bluemanson said:
oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
lol well at least you will have a funny story to tell your mates at the pub..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bluemanson

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im at work now and when ever i see her i burst out laughing.

But i agree with SHERINEO "In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!"
 
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