"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need some help here. i got this girl at work, she is a 8.5 and i chat and flirt an stuff. i make fun of her. well basically im charming her but anyway i havent done any wussy stuff.

so i asked her on email if she likes chocolate and she replied yes.
then i told her i have body chocolate and that she she come help me try it out together.
she replied LOL..... why dont i try it with my other friend. so i said i dont think it will work but me and her well. you can put the chocolate on me and then you can lick it off and vice versa.

the next thing i get a report saying that the mail was not read and deleted.

I then relpied that YOu are no fun..

What do you guys think i did wrong or what happened. how can i get her interested in me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You freak :|

You're not going out with this girl or have any kind of physical relationship with her... what would possibly make you think that saying she can lick chocalate off of you would be a good idea?
 
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oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
 
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hehe..yeah I did something similar once at my workplace on AIM...she complained to her manager....lol

Lickin Chocolate...I'd call it BOLD...and not ****y at all...

In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!
 
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bluemanson said:
oh well it seemed like a good idea at the time and it still does. i can picture doing it actually lol
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lol well at least you will have a funny story to tell your mates at the pub..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im at work now and when ever i see her i burst out laughing.

But i agree with SHERINEO "In seduction BOLD is NOT Beautiful mate...!"
 
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