"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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rsofa

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Hey,
I have a problem that concerns my friend. And I hope I posted in the right place.
It's a really complicated thing really.

There's a girl that he likes and she doesn't like him back and he is all depressed about it. And really over reacting, because I like this girl too but I don't have such problems...
He always talks how she doesn't like none of us and such. And that there are like 0.1% of chance of finding an ideal girl for yourself. And that he gets too attached to people and gets bored of them after some time...

That's true, because our gang has been going out a lot these days and he Is the first to say... No not another bar, lets do something different.

New year is coming, he doesn't want to go out because he cant get drunk because of a medical state and he doesn't want to be out on the cold all night... He want's to celebrate the new year in a different city where I have an apartment empty, but only 6 people want to go... I want a new year with ALL of people I love....

Then the thing is he isn't really happy with his life and overreacts when a girl doesn't want him...
I read that book of pook and it says that you have to be happy with yourself and then you can be happy with someone...well he's not happy with himself, sure he's good when we're going out on party's but then some things make him sad, and when he's sad he listens to sad music and I already told him that's not good, don't overreact, don't worry so much, get over it... and notihng helps..

He's too stubborn.
Any ideas what to do with this guy? :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your friend is a Debbie downer/negative nancy. You kick these *****es to the curb and ditch them. He's a ****ing loser and wants all his friends to do the same. That's ****ing ridiculous. It's like he wants to jump off a cliff and wants to make sure everyone else is tied to him with a rope so they all get dragged along so he doesn't have to be alone.

Please ditch this loser and tell him to go hang out with goths, who have a very pessimistic view on life.

Edit: here's how to proceed. Make bar plans with your willing friends, then at last inform him of your plans. Tell him he is welcome to join. That's the easiest way out without coming off like an *******.
 
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He wasn't like that before school started...
It started when school started somewhere around October...
And yeah he has really bad room mates too..
 
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