"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey,
I have a problem that concerns my friend. And I hope I posted in the right place.
It's a really complicated thing really.

There's a girl that he likes and she doesn't like him back and he is all depressed about it. And really over reacting, because I like this girl too but I don't have such problems...
He always talks how she doesn't like none of us and such. And that there are like 0.1% of chance of finding an ideal girl for yourself. And that he gets too attached to people and gets bored of them after some time...

That's true, because our gang has been going out a lot these days and he Is the first to say... No not another bar, lets do something different.

New year is coming, he doesn't want to go out because he cant get drunk because of a medical state and he doesn't want to be out on the cold all night... He want's to celebrate the new year in a different city where I have an apartment empty, but only 6 people want to go... I want a new year with ALL of people I love....

Then the thing is he isn't really happy with his life and overreacts when a girl doesn't want him...
I read that book of pook and it says that you have to be happy with yourself and then you can be happy with someone...well he's not happy with himself, sure he's good when we're going out on party's but then some things make him sad, and when he's sad he listens to sad music and I already told him that's not good, don't overreact, don't worry so much, get over it... and notihng helps..

He's too stubborn.
Any ideas what to do with this guy? :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your friend is a Debbie downer/negative nancy. You kick these *****es to the curb and ditch them. He's a ****ing loser and wants all his friends to do the same. That's ****ing ridiculous. It's like he wants to jump off a cliff and wants to make sure everyone else is tied to him with a rope so they all get dragged along so he doesn't have to be alone.

Please ditch this loser and tell him to go hang out with goths, who have a very pessimistic view on life.

Edit: here's how to proceed. Make bar plans with your willing friends, then at last inform him of your plans. Tell him he is welcome to join. That's the easiest way out without coming off like an *******.
 
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He wasn't like that before school started...
It started when school started somewhere around October...
And yeah he has really bad room mates too..
 
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