"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, I am new to the forums. I took up an office job for the break and Monday is my last day. Anyway there was this asian chick there, HB 8, who caught my attention. We conversed freely during the week. She punched me lightly a few times too. Body language seemed good too.(I am not a big expert here) She seemed very friendly and was always smiling and laughing. Anyway, since monday is my last day, what should I do for some action? I am not interested in a gf.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kill me now, my friend started saying that I like her(I didnt tell him) and she started acting weird. Like a f*cken reflex I was like no,no. She left that day early too. Does she like me?:(
 
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Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
 
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Originally posted by smith25
Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
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beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
 
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Originally posted by white cloud 8
beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
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oh hell yea i would do that:D
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yea kick ur friend's ass, and if she starts punching you lightly, punch her back. it shows that you're not afraid of being real and not a nice guy to step all over. women loves a guy who can't be tamed.
 
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**** man, your friend ruined it.
 
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All is not lost however. My friend still works at the place and he keeps on telling me to ask her out. What should I do and how?
 
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