"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help with asian at work

smith25

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Hi, I am new to the forums. I took up an office job for the break and Monday is my last day. Anyway there was this asian chick there, HB 8, who caught my attention. We conversed freely during the week. She punched me lightly a few times too. Body language seemed good too.(I am not a big expert here) She seemed very friendly and was always smiling and laughing. Anyway, since monday is my last day, what should I do for some action? I am not interested in a gf.

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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smith25

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kill me now, my friend started saying that I like her(I didnt tell him) and she started acting weird. Like a f*cken reflex I was like no,no. She left that day early too. Does she like me?:(
 

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Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by smith25
Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
 

TuPLaD

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Originally posted by white cloud 8
beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
oh hell yea i would do that:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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t00dumb

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yea kick ur friend's ass, and if she starts punching you lightly, punch her back. it shows that you're not afraid of being real and not a nice guy to step all over. women loves a guy who can't be tamed.
 

Void

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**** man, your friend ruined it.
 

smith25

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All is not lost however. My friend still works at the place and he keeps on telling me to ask her out. What should I do and how?
 
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