"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help with asian at work

smith25

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Hi, I am new to the forums. I took up an office job for the break and Monday is my last day. Anyway there was this asian chick there, HB 8, who caught my attention. We conversed freely during the week. She punched me lightly a few times too. Body language seemed good too.(I am not a big expert here) She seemed very friendly and was always smiling and laughing. Anyway, since monday is my last day, what should I do for some action? I am not interested in a gf.

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smith25

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kill me now, my friend started saying that I like her(I didnt tell him) and she started acting weird. Like a f*cken reflex I was like no,no. She left that day early too. Does she like me?:(
 

smith25

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Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by smith25
Having just read what I wrote, I realized that it didn't make much sense. Anyway what happend is that while we were all at the office, my friend publicly told her that I had a thing for her. I was sort of embarassed and my first reflex was to say no, no, no. Anyway she started acting differently, and left around 20 minutes early before the office closed. What is this supposed to mean?
beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
 

TuPLaD

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Originally posted by white cloud 8
beat the s**t out of your so-called friend ;).
oh hell yea i would do that:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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t00dumb

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yea kick ur friend's ass, and if she starts punching you lightly, punch her back. it shows that you're not afraid of being real and not a nice guy to step all over. women loves a guy who can't be tamed.
 

Void

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**** man, your friend ruined it.
 

smith25

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All is not lost however. My friend still works at the place and he keeps on telling me to ask her out. What should I do and how?
 
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