"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
 

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Originally posted by misionman
ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
hey you look real quiet.
hey how u doin
 
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hey wanna get in my pants?
HEY why dont we go in the back of the room and murder our virginity.
 

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there's gotta be some time before or after class that people can talk, just walk up to her and start a conversation, comment on something she's wearing, something going on in the class (try to be more interesting than "do you know the answer to...) then take it from there. For more conversation tips check out the bible, there's a bunch in there.
 
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