"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by misionman
ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
hey you look real quiet.
hey how u doin
 
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hey wanna get in my pants?
HEY why dont we go in the back of the room and murder our virginity.
 

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there's gotta be some time before or after class that people can talk, just walk up to her and start a conversation, comment on something she's wearing, something going on in the class (try to be more interesting than "do you know the answer to...) then take it from there. For more conversation tips check out the bible, there's a bunch in there.
 
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